Who knew when I moved from California to Arizona that I would learn pickleball and now it has become a HUGE part of my life and my community. I’ve been playing for around three years now and have been in many competitive leagues and tournaments. This past week my team and I became the first-place winners of the East Valley region which qualified us for State Championships where we placed third in Arizona! Our division is women’s doubles 4.0+ and the competition becomes more and more fierce, which I love! Every part of my pickleball journey has grown me in ways I would not expect.

Pickleball looks simple on the surface, but if you play it regularly, it quietly teaches a lot of useful life principles. Here are some of the biggest ones that pickleball has taught me:

• Patience beats power
  You can’t just smash every shot and expect to win. The “soft game” (dinks, placement, waiting for the right moment) is often more effective. In life, timing and restraint usually outperform brute force.
• Consistency matters more than flashes of brilliance
  A player who keeps the ball in play will often beat someone who goes for risky winners. Same idea in real life—steady effort over time tends to win over occasional bursts of intensity.
• Control what you can control
  You can’t control your opponent, the wind, or a bad bounce—but you can control your positioning, focus, and attitude. That mindset translates directly to handling stress and uncertainty off the court.
• Communication is everything (especially in doubles)
  Calling shots, trusting your partner, and staying coordinated are crucial. It’s a reminder that clear communication and teamwork make almost any situation smoother.
• Stay humble—anyone can beat you
  Pickleball has a way of leveling the playing field. Beginners can surprise you, and overconfidence leads to mistakes. It teaches respect and humility.
• Adaptability wins games
  Every opponent plays differently. You have to adjust your strategy constantly. Life works the same way—rigidity makes things harder; flexibility keeps you competitive.
• Mistakes are part of the process
  You’ll hit balls into the net, miss easy shots, and lose games. The players who improve are the ones who shrug it off and keep going. That resilience is a huge life skill.
• Positioning > effort
  Being in the right place at the right time matters more than scrambling wildly. In life, good planning and positioning often reduce the need for unnecessary effort.
• Respect and sportsmanship go a long way
  Pickleball culture emphasizes calling your own lines and being fair. Integrity matters—even when no one is watching.
• Have fun—it’s still a game
  Even competitive matches are meant to be enjoyable. It’s a reminder not to take everything so seriously and to actually enjoy the process.

Of course, I have had moments where I wanted to give up, and I wondered why I was playing the sport because I stunk on the court. Then there are days when I played like wonder woman on the court and won every game with minimal errors. The tide can change on any given day, or even on each game. This is the same as life… at any given moment we are living a highlight reel or a moment we don’t want anyone to see. This is where the resilience of mindset will show through. Will we lean in and learn from our lows to press on, or we will allow them to stop us in our tracks? Well, from being in a competitive mindset the majority of my life, I choose to learn and press on to become even better. I hope you do too!

Happy Pickling my friends,

Jeanette

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